girl trying to convince myself that the feelings they still have, with the help of the best memories of the moment, but it does not help.Love has cooled down, you want something new, but seeing the look on the guy in love, you feel ashamed.And you pull, set aside your thoughts and talk about the separation pigeonholed.But love is not possible to make myself these efforts, on the contrary, facing away from you your half, "broken cup does not stick together" and not worth samoistyazatsya;if you are unhappy in a relationship, then the man will feel it, and nothing good will come of them.Measures should be taken, but first listen to advice on how to leave a man without causing him pain and insult.
10 tips to part with nice guy
- Do not stall .Do not wait for the very appropriate time as you think.It can last forever.Let this be a day off, as in everyday life people are working or studying, they are tired and depressed, although not essential.Do not speak in the most cheerful moments, or heavy, it's jus
t kill him.It is better to be a serious conversation than lingering hints of understatement.
- Admit it in person .In no case do not do it via SMS, Skype, e-mail, phone or other technological miracle.What would you if you threw a guy on the phone?Humiliating, right?If just a little respect left, then give it due attention, he does not play his feelings.
- At the moment of parting blame yourself, but not his .Do not say that there is a problem in that it has ceased to be interested in you, etc.Imagine the situation that you are not worthy of him, that he would meet him a couple of right with which he will be happier than you.And yet, do not say the phrase "let's be friends", it is to humiliate him.This can be by itself.
- D talk about introducing him to a good friend .If your guy is a good man, then there is always a friend, which he likes.It will be a consolation after your break, and will make it clear that you do not wedge the world converged.
- make decisions by herself .Who would advise you not to, he advises as would have done it myself, but for all its life, and what applies to one, the other will not.
- Do not be afraid to be alone .Of course, after you leave the guy failed, began a period of deep reflection.You'll feel lonely.Many girls do not dare to act serious for this reason, they think, "Well, why do I have to stay one?".But you have the support - the girlfriend, mother, all your relatives.And remember, in this life does not end.
- not keep emotions in themselves .After the incident, you want to cry, so do it!I want to cry - only in the way;all that needs to be splashed boiling before starting a new life.
- Dazzle yourself in the world of hobbies .There is something about what you could do in those days, when dating a guy.If you rarely went "out", then buy a ticket to the concert, all the fantasy in your head.
- Do not stir up the past .Two ways can be advised.If you have left out of stupidity, and bitterly regret it, do not wait, run to the guy, and I apologize, yet can be returned for.And if you just depressing loneliness is not related to feelings for the guy, you should not, be patient, take place all by itself.Remove from friends in social networks, do not write it, do not ask anything, do not call, do not need to apologize again - you put an end to the day, it was the final.Otherwise, the separation will last forever.
- Worried jealousy - recall the horrible things about him.We are all owners, and the first time it will be difficult to see our former company of other girls.And this is natural!Well, he was not perfect, and now so did not.He picks his nose, champs, wearing a T-shirt for a few days in a row ... The list itself can continue.Now let the other girl to forgive him his shortcomings.Are you ready for a new relationship.It remains only to find them.